Seo In Guk (Yoon Yoon Jae) naarrates:
" First love. The
reason everyone’s first love is beautiful is not only because the love was
pretty. At the time of first love, there was a youthfulness that didn’t know
how to be wise, a me who was pure to the point of cruelty, and a you whose fire
I couldn’t handle. It’s because I already know that I can never go back to that
youthful, innocent, passionate time.
"First love is reckless. Without calculating, it
throws everything in with pure passion, and inevitably fails. But that’s why
it’s dramatic—the reckless tales wrapped up in experiences or feelings that you
can never have again.
"First love is a time. Once it passes, it’s gone.
Now you have to give a new love and a new time a chance. It might not be the
experience or the purity of first love, but out of that scar is a love that
grows and becomes a little more mature—you have to wait for an adult love. Only
those who wait can dream of love."
"When romance passes, life comes. Purity gets
dirtied, passion freezes over, and youth turns to shrewdness as you age. That
innocent era’s first love becomes fatigued and exhausted daily routine… and is
why first love appears to be something that can’t be realized. Because those
who succeed at realizing their first love… don’t tell you.
"Succeeding at first love is nice too. There’s
comfort that’s even better than your favorite sweater, but also an excitement
that you can find when you’re tired of that comfort. As childhood playmates, as
first loves, as lovers, and as husband and wife, we live through the same
times, share the same memories, and grow old together. A familiar excitement.
It’s nice.
“It was fiery and pure,
the time I long for. Do you hear me? If you hear me, answer, my’90s Me.”
Reviewer:
"I love that theirs
is a relationship that survives not because of some idealized version of first
love, but because they acknowledge that first love is beautiful because it’s a
moment in time, and is as much, if not more, about who you were in that short
burst of time. That you stays in the past, because you have to grow up. It’s
the idea that even people who end up with their first loves have to give up on
the notion of First Love, as if it’s some magical ideal. Life goes on, passion
fades, but love can always change and grow. Their happy ending is not in
realizing their first love, but in finding someone to grow up with."
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